Everyone has that one signature move that can swiftly bring their guy off in seconds.
Is there any better feeling than pulling off a blow job that you know for a FACT truly rocked your partner’s world? Probably not. No matter how confident you feel about your fellatio skills, it can be easy to rest on your laurels and stick to the same few techniques you’ve got in your repertoire.
But why not change it up a bit? Here, 10 women explain their go-to blow job power move that’ll have your partner orgasming in seconds. Proceed with caution, though, as great power comes with great responsibility, etc.
1. Stack your hands on top of one another.
“I keep my hands wrapped around the bottom of his shaft, one stacked on top of the other, and the rest of the length goes into my mouth. When I’m sucking and I’m going deeper or going back up, I move my hands with my mouth so the length of his penis stays enveloped. Make sure it’s really lubricated, and if you keep up a consistent rhythm with this move, they’ll definitely orgasm.” —Nabiha, 24
2. Sit next to him, not in front of him.
“When he’s sitting down or lying on his back, sit next to him facing away from his face, toward his feet. Reversing the angle of approach changes the sensation for him, gives him a great view of your ass, and makes it way easier to deep-throat.” —Lindsey, 27
3. Start with more random motions, then build up to a consistent rhythm.
“I like to incorporate lots of hand action, tons of spit, and circling my tongue on their head. Starting off with more random motions and then building up to a rhythm, all while checking up to see their reactions, is also quite hot.” —Sasha*, 30
4. Go deeper for more lubricative spit.
“I used to be super scared of gagging and taking his penis too deep into my mouth, but I find that once you do go a certain depth, it activates more of a mucus-y response rather than just watery spit. Gross, I know, but also super helpful for using that as lube while simultaneously using your hands to jerk him off.” —Morgan*, 26
5. Use your thumbs.
“Take a moment during the blow job to look at him and rub your thumb over the tip of his penis. Guys go crazy for that. Play thumb war with his shit!” —Araceli, 24
6. Or at least use them as a distraction.
“I squeeze my thumb really hard while going deep and find it helps me focus on something else besides my gag reflex.” —Heather, 21
7. Never ignore the gooch.
“The gooch [aka the perineum, or the flesh between his testicles and his anus] is sacred and must be treated with respect and never ignored. Work from the center of the testicles all the way up to the shaft with tongue but stop to give the perineum attention. I rub my thumb in circles on there lightly while sucking. You can also use your tongue and even work in some super-gentle sucking or nibbling with your lips—never use teeth here!” —Sarah, 22
8. Draw a figure eight with your tongue.
“I’ve found that keeping his penis more shallow in my mouth helps me maneuver with more tongue dexterity on the tip. It also helps me to visualize a figure eight to trace with my tongue.” —Jane*, 26
9. Lick your palms if you need to conjure up more lube quickly.
“When you need to stop and take a breath, look him in the eyes while you lick the palm of your hand for extra lubrication and jack him off for a few seconds. It sounds gross to slobber on your hand, but guys love it, and I’ve found that the messier things are, the better when it comes to blow jobs. Also, if you do gag and need to pull off, keep the up-and-down motion going with your hands and kiss the side of his penis up and down. There’s nothing in your mouth so your gag reflex can take a break, but the blow job sensation doesn’t come to a total standstill because your mouth is still moving on his shaft.” —Rocio, 23
10. If you want to swallow, swallow while he’s still inside your mouth.
“What I do is I swallow my spit but also around his penis while it’s in my mouth. Take him deep toward the back of your throat and swallow around him. This way, you aren’t choking on him, but instead, you’re almost leaning into your gag reflex.” —Nicki, 27
*Name has been changed.
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